Whatever is your Mood, Don’t Pour it on Your Parents, except “the love”

Parents are the heroes of our life.

We really cannot do enough for them, as they did when we were totally dependant and was unable for doing any single thing without them, once in our past life.

We all love them and we all can recall several occasions when they helped us overlooking their own comforts, May ALLAH bless them with greatest ajar in this world and in the jannah afterwards. aameen

But shaitan tell us a different story, when we are older now and busy in our multidimensional lives and by the matter of time ALLAH has given us some powers.

It is one of the common practice that when we are having a bad day or we are in a bad mood, it comes ultimately to family and specially to dear parents.

It’s so easy to be rude to them, without thinking what is the order of our loving RAB.

Later on we feel guilty but that’s not the way to solution.

Solution is to recognise the interference of shaitan in this loving relationship.

Recognise it! when shaitan tells you, they can not do anything ( as they love the most) so this is okay to say them whatever, as I am in a bad mood, it’s not my mistake……. etc

If you have longer lasting anger management issues, take help from family, near friends and professionals, but all normal individuals can deal with the anger with serious efforts.

Seek refuge with shaitan, by tongue and by heart, drink water, sit down if you are standing, perform ablution, wash your face and let the moment pass peacefully.

You will feel okay after a while. Believe it !!!

It’s time to say sorry to ALLAH on doing this and make a habit to think before doing.

Let’s aim today to recognise it in future. insha ALLAH.